OUT OF TOUCH WITH REALITY
Sometimes we only like a person because of the idea of the person.
We don’t know that person but we just love the mysterious air that surrounds the person. We notice things about that person like how he/she looks and how cute he is, the person walks well and dresses great.
We daydream about that person and fantasize about the possibility of knowing that person, sometimes we go to an extent of creating futures that involve that person and how it will be when you actually get the opportunity to talk to that person.
At that time we are infatuated with the idea we made up about that person, we are blinded by the unknown.
Now an opportunity comes up and we get to talk to this person and fully know this person, the scales that covered our eyes falls off and we realize that we were in love with a mirage, an entity of denial wells up first as it will considering we are humans, but then we can’t dwell there for so long.
Soon we begin to understand that the idea we made up about this person is so different from the reality of who the person really is and so the infatuation albeit love we felt falls away and we are only left with the ashes of what we once had.
And that’s why a lot of relationships fall apart, when you hear we just stopped loving each other or he/she changed etc.
Know what you’re entering at all times, are you misplacing the reality with fiction, real-life with fantasy ??
Don’t jump into anything, take the time to go through the normal processes of life.
Sure time waits for no one but also remember that time cannot be rushed